How to Choose the Right Divorce Attorney for You

 Posted on February 28, 2014 in Divorce

Although all of us hope for our “happily ever after,” it cannot be ignored that many marriages end in divorce. If you and your spouse have decided that you must, unfortunately, file for divorce, it is important to take the time to search for the best divorce attorney for you and your family to assist you with the process.

 To get started with your search, gather the names of a few different divorce attorneys in your area so that you can compare and contrast them.

It is a wise idea to research each of these candidates, as well as conduct interviews with each-if you feel an interview is necessary. Talk to friends who have recently gone through the divorce process to see if they have any recommendations, or if they can give you a couple of names you should avoid at all costs. While getting started with your search, take a look at ratings, fees, years in practice, etc.

Since divorce is an emotional matter, it is critical to take likeability and temperament into account. You can get a feel for this during your initial meeting with an attorney. You want to be sure to choose an attorney who has the ability to listen and understand. You do not want to turn to an attorney who mocks or mimics your feelings about your spouse. You do not want your attorney to want to fight, because the more you fight, the more it will cost you in the long run.

If an attorney begins to make you promises that seem too good to be true, you may want to turn the other way. An effective lawyer will be honest and up-front with you about your case.

Finally, take a look at the costs of an attorney. Ask up front about any fees and methods for keeping overall costs manageable.

Choosing to get a divorce is a huge decision. If you and your spouse have come to the conclusion that divorce is for you, be sure to contact an experienced Illinois divorce attorney to assist you.